So I'd like to clarify something about the post from the Advisor.
I recognized myself not in the male description given in the Advisor, but the description of the female. That's what I found most amazing.
Some females I know peform the role of the male, not talking about things due to perceived lack of perfection, a perceived loss of strength.
It's not to say that I'm effeminate, but that I've got appreciation for reassurance that a relationship is strong, and I appreciate conversation that reassures me of that fact.
But at the same time, I don't look to share mundane details with my male friends.
Disclosure does not make me feel vulnerable. It actually makes me feel stronger.
If you've ever seen 8 Mile, it's like the scene where Rabbit (Eminem) disses himself, and then says "now what are you going to say about me?"
If you make everyone know your weaknesses, you lose a weakness: the ability for someone to find out something you're hiding that they could use against you.
I'm also not very comfortable with the idea of "gender roles" either. Even if we are genetically predisposed towards being one way or another, I believe the human mind and body (not to mention soul) are such amazing things that we can all do everything, and we can all peform the actions we feel are most correct.
I'll continue being me, continue to keep my faults obvious, continue to reaffirm my affection, and continue to ignore gender roles.